As a financial planner and father of two young boys (Bo (3) and Kai (1)), I've spent a lot of time thinking about the best ways to save for their future. Should we prioritize college savings? Maybe set aside funds for their first home? How do we balance these goals with our own financial security? And perhaps most importantly, am I allowed to take money back out of Bo’s account every time he intentionally spills his milk on the rug and cackles like a maniac?
If you're a parent wrestling with these questions, welcome to the club! If there’s one thing I’ve learned from working with young families over the years, it’s that there's no one-size-fits-all solution. What works for one family may not be the best choice for another. Ultimately, your strategy should flow from your values, family’s needs, and the extent to which you are feeling vindictive about spilled milk ;)
Assuming your child has been well-behaved enough to justify saving some money for his or her future 😉, the natural next question becomes which account type(s) to utilize and how much to save. This article will focus on the first question, but I will return to the second in the near future.
If you’ve already begun to do some research, you know that the array of account types can be overwhelming, each with its own advantages and drawbacks.
In this guide, we will compare five of the most popular options:
1. Bank Accounts
2. 529 Plans
3. UTMA/UGMA Accounts
4. Taxable Brokerage Accounts
5. Roth IRAs for Kids
We'll delve into each option, discussing when it might be appropriate and potential pitfalls to avoid. And be sure to stick around to the end, where I'll share how my wife and I have structured our own savings plan for Bo and Kai. And no, it doesn’t involve any revenge-based withdrawals.
Before we dive into the various account types, it may be helpful to get clear on a handful of foundational principles.
Principle 1: Put your own oxygen mask on first.
I always encourage my clients to ensure they're saving adequately for their own basic needs in retirement before they commit to funding future college expenses. The logic here is simple- you can borrow for college, but not for retirement.
It’s no fun to make your kids take out loans for college, but it beats the heck out of needing to rely on your adult children for financial support because you’ve run out of money in retirement.
Principle 2: Time is your best friend
Compound interest is truly magical, but it takes time to do its thing. The longer you give your investment in your child’s future to grow, the better your outcome is likely to be.
Here’s a simple example to drive home the point:
Mary and Sam save $6k/yr ($500/mo) in a 529 for their son Felix’s future college expenses. They do this starting the year Felix is born all the way to his 18th birthday. Nicely done, Mary and Sam!
Todd and Wendy get a late start saving for their son, Michael. Knowing they need to make up for lost time, they start saving $12,000/yr ($1,000/mo) in a 529 on his 9th birthday and continue to save until his 18th birthday. Also impressive!
You’ll notice that the total amount saved is actually the same between these two couples-
Mary and Sam: $6k * 18 years= $108k
Todd and Wendy: $12k * 9 years= $108k
But as we’ll soon see, their outcomes couldn’t be more different. For the sake of simplicity, let’s say that both couples achieved a 7.5% annualized return in their sons’ respective 529s.
After saving continuously for 18 years, Mary and Sam would have around $214k, nearly half of which would have come from market growth.
As for Todd and Wendy, their son Michael’s 529 would “only”* have around $148k. By starting late, they sacrificed around $55k of market growth.
*Still a wonderful accomplishment, to be sure!
Principle 3: Just do your best
We sure do put a lot of pressure on ourselves to do right by our kids, don’t we?
I’ve talked to so many parents who are doing their best and still feel guilty about not saving enough. Some feel so guilty about this that they pretend the problem doesn’t exist and paradoxically end up not saving anything at all.
I know I just said that time is your best friend, and it is, but this doesn’t mean you should get down on yourself for not being able to commit to saving as much as you’d like to.
It can be really hard to save significant sums of money for your child’s future when their present is so darn expensive (ahem… looking at you, daycare).
So cut yourself some slack, especially in those early years, and create a plan to get caught up when it’s feasible to do so.
Principle 4: You’re allowed to mix and match (and change your mind)
You don’t have to commit to a single savings strategy. Technically, you could pursue all five of these strategies at the same time, though this would probably be unnecessarily complicated.
And there’s nothing keeping you from changing your approach later on as your family’s situation evolves. None of the following options require an ongoing commitment.
What they are: This category includes various types of bank accounts such as High-Yield Savings Accounts (HYSA), Certificates of Deposit (CDs), checking, and traditional savings accounts. These are FDIC-insured accounts that offer predictable, albeit relatively low, returns.
What it is: A 529 plan is a tax-advantaged investment account designed to help families save for education expenses*. These plans are sponsored by states and offer tax-free growth and tax-free withdrawals when used for qualified education expenses. As an added bonus, many states offer a state tax deductions for contributions made to a 529 plan, which can provide an immediate tax benefit to savers.
*See here for a great list of expenses that are eligible for 529 reimbursement.
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What it is: UTMA (Uniform Transfers to Minors Act) and UGMA (Uniform Gifts to Minors Act) are custodial accounts created to hold gifts or transfers for a minor. The main difference is that UGMAs are limited to financial assets like cash and securities, while UTMAs can include real estate and other property.
These accounts are managed by a custodian - typically a parent or guardian - but the assets belong to the minor. Once a gift is made, it can't be taken back, although the funds can be used for the child’s benefit. Investment earnings are taxed at the child’s tax rate, which is typically lower, unless your child is a baller like this kid.
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What it is: A taxable brokerage account is a flexible investment account that allows you to buy and sell various securities (e.g., stocks, bonds, ETFs, mutual funds, etc.). Unlike specialized accounts like 529s or UTMAs, these accounts aren't specifically designed for child-related savings, but they can be effectively used for this purpose. The taxable brokerage account is the Lady Gaga of personal finance. It might not be the absolute best at any one thing, but wow, such range!
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What it is: A Roth IRA for kids is an account designed to give minors a head start on saving for retirement. As with regular Roth IRAs, Roth for Kids accounts are funded with after-tax dollars, which then grow tax-free forever. Similar to UTMA/UGMA accounts, the account must be managed by an adult (the custodian), then transferred to the child upon reaching adulthood. As we will see, the tax advantages of this can be pretty astonishing, but there’s a catch- your child must have earned income to participate.
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Joey’s initial $7k contribution grows to an impressive $126,310 after 40 years of compounding.
Jimmy ends up with $260,328 on his own 65th birthday. The additional 10 years of compound interest has allowed him to more than double his brother’s investment result. Go Jimmy!
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For Bo and Kai, we've implemented a two-pronged approach that balances our commitment to education with plenty of flexibility.
We've established 529 plans for both boys with a baseline goal of covering room, board, and tuition at a public in-state college. Currently, we're in a position to save more than technically required (assuming consistent savings over 18 years), so we're front-loading these accounts as much as we can. This strategy allows compound interest more time to work its magic and will allow us to significantly reduce contributions in later years if needed/desired.
We're also contributing to a taxable brokerage account. Life is unpredictable, and we want to keep our options open. This fund could potentially help the boys with a house down payment, fund graduate school, or support a startup idea. Alternatively, we might decide they're doing fine on their own and use it to enhance our retirement. The key is that we don't need to decide now.
This approach allows us to commit to funding their education while maintaining the flexibility to adapt to whatever the future holds. It's our way of supporting our kids while acknowledging that we can't predict what they (or we) will need 18 years from now.
Saving for your child's future is a deeply personal decision. There's no universally "right" approach—only the approach that's right for your family. Whether you opt for the tax advantages of a 529, the flexibility of a brokerage account, or any combination of the strategies we've discussed, the most important thing is thinking ahead and taking action when you’re able.
Every dollar you save now is a dollar your child won't have to borrow or earn later. Start where you can, when you can. Your future self (and your kids) will thank you.
Every great journey starts with a single step. Take yours today: